Recognize the Signs

I want you, an ordinary person, who grieves the loss of a loved one, to understand how simple it is to connect with the Afterlife. But you will find it hard if you don't believe it's possible. And TV shows like "The Ghost Whisperer" don't help either!!

On my CD "Contacting the Afterlife - A Spoken Beginners Guide" I start off with a track called "Accepting the Possibility". The reason I do that, is that if you are closed to the concept of being able to contact spirits of the afterlife, you will find it much harder to do, and make it much harder for those who are trying to come through to you, to do so.

I believe anybody can recognize and verify the signs of contact, from family and friends in the Afterlife. I do not believe you need a special gift to be able to contact the Afterlife. Unlike many around the world who are clairvoyants or spiritualists, your family and friends who have passed away, that you miss, long for, grieve for,or you just want to know they're okay, ARE contactable by normal everyday people- just like you. I also believe that most people are able to experience spirit contact with the person they want, and verify it.

Is the TV show "Ghost Whisperer" what it's really like? I'm not saying to believe everything you see, particularly on TV. All I am saying is you should be open minded. But I have a problem with a lot of TV shows and movies which portray contact with the Afterlife as something that it's not.

There are those who are gifted, who do get very clear specific information with very clear images. But for most, especially non-psychic people, it's NOT. The problem I have with a show like "The Ghost Whisperer" is that it wrongly shows that she stops, and listens to large volumes of information with complete sentences. It generally doesn't happen like that, particular for ordinary "non-psychic" people wanting to connect with family and friends for the first time - and that stops them trying, and recognizing the signs.

It's a burst of information for most people. Short, sharp. so what might take two or three sentences to come through in a normal conversation can take a split second: as an image or thought or feeling. That's why many spiritualists struggle at times to explain in words what they get. That's important for you as a normal, non-psychic person who may not be terribly psychic, to realise.

A momentary burst of an image, feeling or a couple of words. It comes through quickly, and it's usually the FIRST THING you think of when you ask for some information.

I talk about this in my book and on my CD and in articles. When I first started to share with my son how to do this, the first thing he got was from my mother. He didn't get told he's being shown a picture of the wattle tree with the yellow fluffy balls of wattle, with his dad (me) standing in front of it. He got a split second image of a tree with cotton wool balls on it - and a bit later, saw the cotton wool as yellow, and I was the one who had to piece together the fact that he was seeing the wattle tree I had a picture of, with me standing in front of it, when I was 4 years old.

I'm bringing this up because most people who watch a TV show like that will think it comes through like the shows, and it's doesn't. The information that comes through to you will be brief, and will be over very quickly. It isn't full sentences. It's often in feelings. It's almost like three sentences could be encapsulated in one brief feeling that you would have trouble explaining fully in words, but you know what it means. And that's what you're looking for, when they contact you. It's the little rush of information which makes perfect sense to you even though it might be difficult for you to explain.

This is why so many initially miss the signs of contact.

This is the reason some miss the signs, because they get a little burst of information and then they think it couldn't possibly be right. "Why would I have thought of that?" But you did. And it's real. Use the information in y video, this site, my book and especially my CD, to help you understand that family in the Afterlife CAN contact you. You don't have to be gullible, but just belie it's possible. If you do that, you'll find things will start coming through.

Should we force our opinions on others who don't believe?

I did a reading with a rather large family group a while ago, and I brought through information for most people in the room. However, there was a man in the corner of the room, showing interest, but having no desire to participate. During a reading, I ask my guys on the other side for guidance, and I got a strong "don't bother with the man in the corner" feeling. At the end of the session, I always ask if there are nay general questions.

Someone in the room asked what happens if you completely do not believe spirit contact is possible? I explained nicely that it's the right of every individual to believe things, or not to believe things. But I felt very much as if she was referring to the gentleman in the corner. Not wanting to offend him, I explained my thoughts on everyone being entitled to their own beliefs. But I went on the explain that I think it is a pity where a particular family member will go beyond this, and ridicule the rest of the family for believing in spirit contact,. This is no different to whether somebody does or doesn't like football. Some love it, some hate it. I think it is a shame when one person expects everyone to share the same view.

I sometimes have spirits come through who are completely surprised that they're still around!! They can see and hear what's going on, and they are aware their family is here, but they can't come through, because the family has been totally convinced by them it's not possible.

In your own instance, if you don't believe contact with the spirit world is possible, it makes it much harder for them to come through. You need too much proof. I find this when I do readings. Those who are open minded catch on to the things i say, and are happy with that as proof. The problem is those who don't always want more - it's never enough. If you watch the film "Ghost" with Demi Moore, you can see Patrick's character filled with frustration at trying to prove he is around.

It's never enough...

If somebody wants birthdays and you bring through birthdays, then a person who was negative and turned off by this will quite correctly be able to say it could be a lucky guess, or a trick. And that's true. Some can do that. If it's down to favourite colours and foods, it still comes down to possible guesses or priming a person for information. The problem is, there's never enough proof. It's a bit like the person who would be as ridiculous as saying there is no such thing as electricity coming through the power point, and you want to prove it by sticking your finger in the socket. They do, they die. There will never be enough proof until you die.
I've placed many articles on the web because they get picked up by other sites and spread around. If you want to find them, just "Goggle" the term "Afterlife Phil G" and it will come up with bucket-loads of things to help you.

"Thank you so much for sharing your technique with me. I was standing at the clothes line the other day, and I felt like my Gran'ma was with me. I did as you said, and asked for confirmation. I saw a chess board, which made no sense to me.

So I rang mum, and asked if Gran'ma used to play chess. She said "No", so I guessed I had just imagined it. But just before she hung up, mum said "Oh, your Gran'ma used to love playing draughts, which is played on a chess board!"I couldn't believe it. I didn't know that! And I would never have thought of it. Thank you so much. - Kristy.

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